Returning from vacation is a kind of return to reality. Do we all need some time to readjust to the business rhythm, or is it possible for that to happen “overnight”?
Question:
I wouldn’t say it’s a big problem, but I am curious about your opinion. After a long time, I spent a full three weeks on vacation, and I really rested and relaxed well.
Upon returning to work, it’s been more than a week now, I notice that I am disorganized, forgetful, and confused, which usually doesn’t happen to me. It’s as if my thoughts and concentration are still somewhere else. I don’t know if it’s noticeable on the outside, but I know that I am not 100% myself. The work I do is generally good and interesting, and I don’t think the issue lies there… I simply can’t seem to gather myself.
Answer:
If you had “gathered yourself,” as you say, right on the first working day, we would probably be debating whether you even rested at all. You might argue that you did, while I would introduce the thesis that your head, or brain, probably never even went on vacation.
Why? Because it is natural for you to need some time after a vacation to re-enter business mode. And we cannot return if we never left, right?
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From your letter, it is not clear what your profession is, but one image comes to mind that could clearly illustrate the process of returning from vacation: when we turn off a computer and later want to turn it back on, it takes some time for the system to “boot up” and for the computer to be functional. A similar thing happens with our business part of personality. At the moment of going on vacation, we are still tense for a while, thinking about work, and we need some time before we start functioning from that private part of our personality and spending time in activities that accompany it. That would be the “turning off” of the computer, or the transition from business to private mode. Some people quickly redirect, while others need 4-5 days to truly relax and start resting. It is well known that during these periods we are more prone to a drop in immunity, and thus to getting sick, precisely because our body relaxes and defends itself less effectively against infections. Short vacations where people end up bedridden with a virus are not uncommon, for example!
