After changing companies, we believe that a better era begins for us, both professionally and personally. But is it possible to achieve this “overnight”?
What if we start recognizing some positive aspects of the previous company and struggle to adapt from the very beginning in the new environment? Does this mean we made the wrong decision or is there something else at play?
Question:
After about 10 years of working in a large and established company, I decided to change my work environment. Partly due to a desire for change, partly due to better financial conditions, and mostly due to the turbulence that began to occur in my now former company (new systematizations, layoffs…) At first, while everything was new, I didn’t notice it, but now, after a few weeks, I caught myself comparing every thing or event with the former company. I know that after so many years of work, it is difficult to change ingrained habits, but I notice that these comparisons take a lot of my time and energy. As I work in a managerial position, I am expected to be independent and proactive, and the new situation is hindering me in that regard. This management has different expectations and behavior patterns than the previous one, so I fear that I might get lost in these adjustments and fail to fulfill today’s promises.
Answer:
First of all, take a deep breath. Take a deep breath and read this sentence: “After 10 years of working in one company, I have been in a new one for a few weeks. Which is different.”
I haven’t revealed anything groundbreaking, but I find it important to pause with this fact. Why? Because it carries a multitude of big and small changes that require time. Moreover, it brings various emotions such as confusion, insecurity, indecision, and I would say, generally, a certain drop in self-confidence. But this is just a phase that will pass.
In the previous company, you completely mastered your job; there were no unknowns for you. There were probably events and decisions you disagreed with (which is why you decided to leave), but the previous company and you were an old, proven, well-oiled pair. To get accustomed to the current company, it will take time to create a coexistence. The drop in self-confidence I mentioned is precisely that time during which you are questioning, getting to know, and acclimatizing to different protocols, seeking your “place in the sun.” Currently, things are not going routinely, as you are used to, so it is no surprise that you need more time and energy. This is normal. In fact, it would be strange if it were any different! How long will this phase last? It is difficult to predict as it depends on numerous factors, but it would not be unusual for it to last up to 6 months. If that sounds like a lot, just remember that on the other side of the “scale” is a full 10 years.
